Photo by Dark Grey (Flickr Creative Commons License) Sure, you’ve done a lot of self work, attended dozens of courses and read hundreds of books. You’ve improved your life phenomenally although you know you haven’t reached the end of your journey – there are still many goals you wish to conquer. You’ve been taking responsibility [...]
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I’m reading this amazing book at the moment – well, not actually reading it, but listening to it. I download a lot of books from audible.com and listen to them while I’m driving or flying.
Anyway, the book is “Blink!” by Malcolm Gladwell. How we think without really thinking about it. And while it’s all captivating, there was one major aha moment for me, particularly regarding the success mindset.
This point was about priming, and how that can have either a positive or negative effect. Continue reading »
 My Problems Are Worse Than Your ProblemsThere’s another game we love to play – one-up-man-ship of problems – or as I love to say in the vernacular, “My sh*t is worse than your sh*t”. This is a distracting and irrelevant game because we do not have other people’s circumstances, attitudes, backgrounds, etc. Whenever we compare ourselves to others, we risk losing [...] |
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 The Masks We WearDo you hide under any of these masks? I’ve got it all together, so I don’t need your help, thank you. It’s all under control. Yes, I can manage. I’ve got it under control. (Jeez, if you only knew how madly I’m trying to cope to make this look effortless. That calm duck paddling madly [...] |
