- You take responsibility for your own circumstances. No blaming ANYONE else. I operate on a primary rule, that where it hurts, it needs to heal. More on that later.
- You absolutely need to search for answers to life’s BIG questions. I can help you with that, getting you started and suggesting where you might direct your searching. BUT I won’t give you answers that I expect you to believe. Use my comments in this area as a launching pad for your own explorations.
- You MUST be your own best friend. You begin life alone, and you finish it alone. In between, you’re the ONLY person who you know for sure will always be there. Don’t travel through life with your worst enemy.
- Learn to expand your awareness so that you begin to see or hear clues all around you – starting particularly with what you are sending out into the world. Related to rule #1, by becoming aware of what you are putting out there, you can begin to be aware of how that connects with things that are coming back at you.
- Don’t take life so SERIOUSLY. Respectfully, by all means, but learn to take the DRAMA out of situations. Learn to enjoy the paradoxes and the absurdities.
- Don’t wait to be rescued. It’s no one’s job to rescue you. You have to do it yourself. No way out of it. None at all.
- There is no urgency, but why wait? Strongly related to rule #2.
- Become aware of what beliefs, patterns, ideas, opinions, etc have been put into your life by others and what you have chosen for yourself.
- Put some energy into building new habits of thought, speech and behavior
Hey, I said they were simple, but this doesn’t mean that they’re EASY.